Category: Columns

Sleepover at Grampy and Maria’s House

 Ernie McCray  May 18, 2023  5 Comments on Sleepover at Grampy and Maria’s House

by Ernie McCray

Two of my grandchildren,
Lyric and Marley,
Lyric almost ten,
Marley, eight,
slept over
the other night
and things went great.

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Feeling a More Caring World

 Ernie McCray  May 12, 2023  0 Comments on Feeling a More Caring World

by Ernie McCray

Had a nice weekend at the
“The 2023 Annual Conference of
California Community College
Trustees”
at the
Monterey Plaza Hotel and Spa
with mi querida
who is a trustee.

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Reflecting on Ralph Yarl and Guns

 Ernie McCray  May 2, 2023  2 Comments on Reflecting on Ralph Yarl and Guns

by Ernie McCray

On the subject of racism and guns
in our nation
I can’t get Ralph Yarl
out of my mind,
how he,
a Black teen,
got lost one day
and, as people in such a situation do,
he knocks on a door

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Aging Is No Stroll Through the Park (But It’s Good to Be Alive)

 Ernie McCray  April 21, 2023  6 Comments on Aging Is No Stroll Through the Park (But It’s Good to Be Alive)

by Ernie McCray

Made it.
85 earthly rides
around the sun.
And most of it
has been a ton
of fun
but this aging
has been no
stroll through the park, Jack,
or anything close to that,
as parts of me, like my back,
up and quit on me a while back,

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Ernie McCray Turns 85 Today — Aging Memories

 Ernie McCray  April 18, 2023  16 Comments on Ernie McCray Turns 85 Today — Aging Memories

by Ernie McCray

I’m at an age
when my life
consists of mostly memories
and sometimes these remembrances
come to me
suddenly
and randomly,
as I can, in one moment,
remember
a time when I was
down, up against it,
overwhelmed
with cares and woes
like a man adrift in a dark churning sea,
a swallow away from drowning,

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Bothered, Yeah, Right

 Ernie McCray  April 5, 2023  3 Comments on Bothered, Yeah, Right

by Ernie McCray

Wow!
Somebody
finally
indicted
a man
who can’t open his mouth
without committing
a major crime,
after a lifetime of thuggery
of all kinds,
and one of his attorneys
is talking about
how we
should be
bothered by

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Feeling Thankful as I Near 85

 Ernie McCray  March 29, 2023  5 Comments on Feeling Thankful as I Near 85

by Ernie McCray

I’m almost 85.
And with more years behind me
than ahead of me
I am thankful
to still be alive
and to have been brought to life
by a mother who
loved and befriended me
and guided me
towards a nice path
to take on my life’s journey,
a voyage
I’m thankful for
just for the gifts
that have been bestowed on me:

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It’s Not Drag Queens Our Children Shouldn’t See

 Ernie McCray  March 14, 2023  3 Comments on It’s Not Drag Queens Our Children Shouldn’t See

by Ernie McCray

How silly are we,
as a society,
to talk about
getting rid of
drag queen performances
to shield the productions
from the view of our children
as though our kids
sneak out at night
going to drag venues
and strip clubs
and the like.

Yikes.
Are homo sapiens’
brains on strike?

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A Shout Out to the Students at Muir Language Academy (Regarding a Discussion About Black History)

 Ernie McCray  March 8, 2023  5 Comments on A Shout Out to the Students at Muir Language Academy (Regarding a Discussion About Black History)

by Ernie McCray

Oh, I so enjoyed
sharing my experiences
with you
bright young people
as an 84-year-old Black man
who has
sat at the back of the bus
and put up with
a whole lot of other stuff
and, somehow in all the
huffing and puffing
against such,
managed to
keep the love in me
untouched.

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Being Woke Is Essential for a Hopeful Future

 Ernie McCray  February 28, 2023  2 Comments on Being Woke Is Essential for a Hopeful Future

by Ernie McCray

At a time
when we
should open our eyes and hearts and minds
to ways
we can
learn the rich stories
that make up
who we are collectively
as subsets
in the vast world
of humanity,
along comes someone like
Ron DeSantis,
the governor of Florida,

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On Being Honored in Bayard Rustin’s Name

 Ernie McCray  February 21, 2023  8 Comments on On Being Honored in Bayard Rustin’s Name

by Ernie McCray

Just being mentioned with Bayard Rustin
would be enough to fill me with glee.
But receiving the Bayard Rustin
Lifetime Achievement Award
is mind blowing for me.

Makes me feel
like Bojangles
dancing a soft shoe
down a stairway
in a Shirley Temple movie
or on Old Broadway.

Because Bayard was a hero of mine.
Big time.

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Black History Month Has Come a Long Way

 Ernie McCray  February 13, 2023  2 Comments on Black History Month Has Come a Long Way

by Ernie McCray

Black History Month
has come a long way
since a beginning
that was filled with
controversy over celebrating
it in the month that has the fewest days
when Black History, so much of it
American History,
could be integrated in historical studies
throughout a school year
and there have been those

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