‘Should I Ask My Fiancé Not to Go to a Strip Bar For His Bachelor Party?’
By Edwin Decker
Dear SWAT, my wedding is coming up in a month and I couldn’t be more thrilled. The only problem is, I can’t stand the thought of my fiancé going to a strip club for his bachelor party.
I swear I’m not a prudish person but the idea of him staring at all these women, getting lap dances, throwing money at them to see their private parts up close etc., truly creeps me out. At the same time, I don’t want him to think I’m some sort of controlling prude. I’m really not prudish or controlling at all. There’s just something about this activity that grosses me out. What do you think? Should I ask him not to go or keep my mouth shut?
Sincerely,
Not-a-Prude
Mission Valley San Diego
Dear Prudence, won’t you come out to play-ay-ay?
Just kidding! I don’t think you’re a prude. But even if you are, so what? You do you. It is your right, nay responsibility, to express your feelings to your mate

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By Judi Curry
The following is from the Mandy Havlik for City Council campaign:
Nearly a half dozen candidates have lined up to take Jennifer Campbell on for the June primary election in going after the District 2 city council seat. Campbell is seeking a second term, having ousted Republican Lori Zapf in 2018.
Join the Ocean Beach Historical Society Thursday February 17 in celebration of their 28th year for a LIVE Program:
ACE, Albert C Elliott, caught these surfers at the Big Jetty in Ocean Beach just recently. Including the memorial to George Barnes.
Corey Bruins was recently appointed by the OB Town Council Board of Directors as its president. Apparently Bruins has weathered the storms and controversies of the summer and has emerged still at the head of the organization. At least a majority of the board has confidence in him to run the group for the rest of the year.
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Clean Up OB Business Districts – Join With the OBMA – Feb.18




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