The Face of Homelessness in San Diego

by on February 3, 2016 · 6 comments

in Culture, Economy, Homelessness, San Diego

San Diego Has the Fourth Highest Number of Homeless in the US and that Doesn’t Even Count Most Homeless Families

homeless familyBy John Lawrence

I met a homeless woman at a coffee shop in downtown San Diego. She had emailed me to correct a few points in a previous article I had written about the homeless. Her name is Jingles, not her real name, of course.

That’s the name she goes by downtown. She’s tough, savvy, intelligent, resourceful, wise to the ways of the street. She is 55 years old with several health related problems and three small dogs.

One of them is 20 years old and won’t be with her much longer. The three dogs prevent her from being taken in by a shelter, but she won’t give them up, and I don’t blame her. They are the best friends she has.

Her cell phone is her lifeline to the outside world and is what lets her know what’s going on out there. That’s how she was able to read the San Diego Free Press and then email me. It’s also a lifeline to 911 in case of a heart attack or other severe medical problems. Several of her cell phones have been stolen; then she has to start all over again spending money she doesn’t have.

She suffers from a variety of ailments including fibromyalgia, arthritis, manic depression, COPD, anxiety disorders and PTSD from living on the streets. She had a heart attack three years ago. She gets General Relief (GR). She has three GR workers who deal with various aspects of her case.

Think Dignity

Think Dignity

In addition to her cart, she has a storage locker which she pays $113. a month for. After paying for her cell phone and storage locker each month, there’s not much left. I told her about Think Dignity, a group that provides free lockers for the homeless. There are 304 lockers and 130 bins. Over 100 people have been able to gain employment/housing and move off the streets due to the service the Transitional Storage Center (TSC) provides.

TSC is located at 252 16th Street at a lot owned by the San Diego Housing Commission and graciously provided for TSC use. She was very knowledgeable about the available resources, but she hadn’t heard of Think Dignity. I gave her the newspaper article about them.


She grew up in Springfield, Massachusetts and graduated from high school there. She was taken away from her abusive birth parents by the state and adopted by a military family when she was two. After graduating from high school, she lived in Vermont for awhile with a hippie commune, the Rainbow Family. The Rainbow Family is still around. They have national gatherings in national forests every year. As many as 25,000 can get together. She was a big follower of the Grateful Dead in her teen age years. She was a hippie then and she’s still a hippie now.

From Wikipedia:

Regional Rainbow Gatherings are held throughout the year in the United States, as are national and regional gatherings in dozens of other countries. These Gatherings are non-commercial, and all who wish to attend peacefully are welcome to participate. There are no leaders, and traditionally the Gatherings last for a week, with the primary focus being on gathering on public land on the Fourth of July in the U.S., when attendees pray, meditate, and/or observe silence in a group effort to focus on World Peace. Most gatherings elsewhere in the world last a month from new moon to new moon, with the full moon being the peak celebration. Rainbow Gatherings emphasize a spiritual focus towards peace, love, and unity.

homeless tentsJingles was married twice. Her first husband died. Her second husband was abusive. She’s been single for 20 years. She has no biological children, but raised several children of her two sister-in-laws. She’s still in touch with them. There have been no significant male others in her life since her divorce, but she has a lot of male friends for protection. A woman needs that especially when sleeping at night on the streets.

She’s traveled around – Michigan, Wisconsin, Florida, Georgia, Tennessee. She’s been in San Diego for about two years. She’s been homeless since 2009 when she lost her job as a cook because “my health went in the toilet.” She worked in many restaurants since she was 19 and was certified as a chef in Michigan. When she lost her last job, she bought an RV and took to the road.

She was living in Tennessee on Hippie Hill. The hippies there took in a lot of homeless people for periods of time. There’s a tenuous link between hippieness and homelessness. Hippies are at odds with the present day competitive, acquisitive, materialistic, capitalistic society that values money above all else, the Wall Street values that separate the 1% from the 99%.

Jingles had to leave the commune due to a misunderstanding with a man who had first befriended her after her heart attack and then later accused her of stealing. She had to exit suddenly leaving behind several thousands of dollars in tattoo and jewelry making equipment and her RV. At this point she had no transportation or residence. She was on the road and homeless.

The Job That Never Materialized

She teamed up with another woman and helped her drive to California where she had the promise of a job as a nanny. After she got here, the job never materialized. Her friend was at Vantage Pointe apartments in San Diego, but the daughter that needed nannying turned out not to be there. So she was on the street again.

She doesn’t use drugs or alcohol. Some housing has opened up, but the rules are too restrictive. She says that Alpha Square has room inspections. “Why are you making grown adults go through room inspections, like you’re in a reformatory or a prison system? It’s not going to integrate people back into society,” she said.

crying homelessShe can’t use the library resources because she can’t take her dogs in there except if she has someone to watch the dogs outside. Her credentials for the dogs saying they were service dogs got stolen. If she had those credentials, she would be able to go in a lot more places. The last dog she acquired, she rescued last summer. The dogs all get along pretty well. Has anyone ever considered pet sitting services for the homeless?

She can’t work any more due to her health problems. Her purse with all her ID got stolen so she has to go about the process of reacquiring all her ID and important papers. She has tried to start a disability case several times, but she’s not been able to get anywhere with it. Despite her health problems, the disability Board says she still has the capability to work. Her former attorney let her down. She needs a strong advocate to get her benefits. The fact that a person is homeless should qualify them for disability in and of itself. But she says, “The government doesn’t look at it that way.” Every homeless person needs an advocate basically, or they’re up shit creek without a paddle. And there are too few of those – advocates that is.

Disability Benefits Down the Tube

I handed her a printout that lists all the things you need to even apply for disability. Name of current spouse and prior spouse, spouses’ dates of birth and social security numbers, beginning and ending dates of marriages, place of marriages etc etc. What if you don’t know all that stuff or have the relevant paperwork? It’s a bureaucratic nightmare. Jingles doesn’t remember when her first spouse was born, and he’s dead. She needs a committed advocate to fight the system for her. Without that help from a lawyer or social worker, the task of climbing out of the deep hole she’s in is too daunting. Too many people are dying on the streets for lack of paperwork.

I told her about the Tiny Homes project that is proceeding downtown. They are lockable and a safe place to sleep at night. One of her friends overslept recently and was woken up by police who made her throw out her tent because it supposedly was illegal to have a tent in downtown. Jingles makes it a point to get up early and go to bed late, and to make sure she’s with friends she trusts to protect her at night.

Jeeni Criscenzo of Amikas: Housing for Homeless Women and Children and the San Diego Free Press estimates there are 20,000 homeless families in San Diego County. This can be computed from school records since schools are required to report the number of homeless children in their systems. This is far more actually homeless people than the official reports indicate.

WeALLCount is a group of 1700 volunteers who were up before dawn last Friday, January 29th, to count the homeless in San Diego. HUD money comes to the city based on this count. Problem is the count is flawed. Many homeless are hidden away, not sleeping on the streets where they can be identified. A true count would add Jeeni’s figures of 20,000 additional families or at least 40,000 additional people.

Lisa Kogan had donated a tiny home to Michael Clark in San Diego only to have the police show up, arrest the man and haul the tiny home away. But she’s not giving up. She and others along with Jeeni and Bryan Kim have teamed up to build more tiny homes on a vacant lot in downtown. This time they have the required permissions and permits to do it. The group is called Homeless to Housed.

Rob Greenfield is trying to raise $10,000 so 10 tiny shelters for our homeless brothers and sisters can be built. He is auctioning off his own Tiny House to make the money to build 10 more.

portapottyThink Dignity is taking on the project of portable showers and port-a-potties are in the works to be provided at theHomeless to Housed Tiny Homes site. Until Housing First can provide enough apartments for all the homeless, the Tiny Homes project is a best solution to provide temporary housing for the least amount of money.

The Tiny Homes movement is sweeping the country. See In a Tiny House Village, Portland’s Homeless Find Dignity in Yes! magazine. As cities search for solutions to homelessness, Portland’s Dignity Village offers 60 men and women community and safety.

There was one last story before we said good-bye. Her friend, Mike, has a heart defibrilator. The device malfunctioned when they were sleeping underneath the B St bridge last February to stay out of the rain. She was on the phone with 911 turning her locator on and off. Because they were under a bridge, they couldn’t find them. She went out to the edge of the bridge and the signal got out and they found them on 18th street according to the GPS. But there’s no 18th street. The EMTs kept saying that address doesn’t exist. “It’s in the middle of the freeway.” Jingles kept saying, “No, we’re in the middle of the freeway, but under it.” Somehow they got found and Mike got the medical attention he needed. If it hadn’t have been for Jingles’ cell phone, Mike wouldn’t be here.

If you’re a lawyer reading this and want to help Jingles navigate through the maze of applying for disability benefits, please send your contact information to me,, and I will forward it on to her.

{ 6 comments… read them below or add one }

Christo February 3, 2016 at 10:29 am

” The three dogs prevent her from being taken in by a shelter, but she won’t give them up..”
Her choice.

“She was a big follower of the Grateful Dead in her teen age years. She was a hippie then and she’s still a hippie now.”
Wonderful. Most Deadheads and “hippies” are still productive members of society.

“She had to exit suddenly leaving behind several thousands of dollars in tattoo and jewelry making equipment and her RV. At this point she had no transportation or residence. She was on the road and homeless.”
Then she came to San Diego- where she expects the rest of us to pay for her bad choices.

“Some housing has opened up, but the rules are too restrictive.”
Again- her choice.

“She’s been in San Diego for about two years. She’s been homeless since 2009 ”
And the citizens of this city should be taking care of her?

“She needs a strong advocate to get her benefits.”
You mean the ones that she didn’t ever work in this state to earn?

“Raised several children of her two sister-in-laws. She’s still in touch with them.”
Someone should be interviewing them on why they are not helping her.

This is a wonderful example of someone who made a lifetime of bad decisions and expects the rest of us to pay for it. Why should we fiscally enable this kind of behavior?


Oh jeez... February 3, 2016 at 1:16 pm

Damn Christo…Harsh man.
BUT I can’t say that I disagree with you one bit…


Barbara February 3, 2016 at 2:21 pm

When I worked at soup kitchens, I was always so mesmerized by the people who came in to “help”, and yet demonstrated such immature levels of compassion and listening skills. A small group of young males, I recall, laughed and made fun of a homeless man because he didn’t like the taste of the soup. The attitude was that he shouldn’t be able to have preferences because he was homeless.

“Several of her cell phones have been stolen; then she has to start all over again spending money she doesn’t have.” –Was that her choice?

“She was taken away from her abusive birth parents.” –Was that her choice?

Jingles was married twice. Her first husband died. Her second husband was abusive. –Was that her choice?

Her health went in the toilet — Was that her choice?

The only thing I can see that was a choice showing she’s an amazing, compassionate individual is taking care of her in-laws children, which — not by her choice — happens to not usually pay minimum wage or have a union that advocates for her.


Debra February 4, 2016 at 12:11 pm

I’m deeply ashamed, having blamed the homeless/travelers, for stealing stuff from me, when it actually was my trashy, thieving neighbor.
I cannot imagine sleeping on the streets, especially considering how miserably cold it has been at nite this winter. But you can bet your *** that I would, if I had to, just like Jingles, in order to keep my pets.
There has to be a better solution, rather than sending millions of dollars overseas to countries and bringing refugees over here, to support with welfare and college scholarships, etc. All the while, ignoring our own citizens.


Jan Michael Sauer February 8, 2016 at 8:24 am

This article is another reason why the OB Rag is the best on the web. When we give money to the homeless at least we know where it’s going unlike some other charities. As a supporter of Bernie Sanders I wish that he would make our homeless problem a priority issue but I don’t even hear the question asked at any of the debates. I applaud the people of OB for their tolerant attitude toward the homeless. You can judge a country by the way it takes care of its prisoners and its homeless.


KD February 23, 2016 at 7:03 pm

Greetings from OuterState!
I have some links for Jingles and her dogs’ benefit – they’re posted below.. but please let me say:
Thanks for the insightful article. Wonderful tone – nothing institutionalized about it, and it is much more Human minus all the “socially correct criticism/judgementalism. Just “straight from the horse’s mouth” reporting. That being said, I was homeless for about 16 months in 1990-’91 and “accidentally” wound up drifting as West as I could go in the USA. Homesteaded a spot for safe sleeping under a bougainvillea that cascaded over a privacy fence of someone’s backyard abutting the hike and bike trail just upstream from Dog Beach. A very trying time, but made less dehumanizing because of the unique qualities of OB and its Citizens’ naturally Bohemian slant. Thanks again, OB! Via the extrordinary foresight and generosity of San Diegans (and others) and some good old B Mod on my part I finally found a decent “fit” with life and have for many years since been blessed with a “normal” life. I am no longer in OB, having followed a career arc to points far and wide, but I continue to keep up with the news from the town in which I was reborn. Love you folks!
Here are those links, hope I don’t run out of space….

Donations of Petwear to go to the Homeless


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