San Diego SlutWalk – Singing the Body Electric

by on June 13, 2011 · 15 comments

in LGBT rights, Popular, San Diego, Women's Rights

San Diego SlutWalk. Photo by Holly Eskew via

I’ve attended many rallies and protests at downtown San Diego’s City Hall, but never have I attended one with so much sizzle. Sexuality was the issue– predominately, but not exclusively female sexuality. As Patty Jones has noted here the message was “yes means yes and no means no.” Participants were as unequivocal about everything that the “yes means yes” part implies as they were unequivocal about the “no means no” part. “Yes” put the sizzle in Slutwalk and it was a deeply sensual and life affirming “yes.” That is probably why Slutwalk was not only empowering and thought provoking but also a whole lotta fun.

Slutwalk was exhilarating and inspiring. It was smart. And it had unanticipated surprises that I continue to think about. I have been a self-identified feminist since the late 1960’s when I started thinking about things like patriarchy, pink collar ghettos and then the Equal Rights Amendment. My husband identifies himself as a feminist. I write about women’s issues from a feminist perspective. Slutwalk was an opportunity for me to ask the participants there about their thoughts on feminism and sluts.

I am deeply grateful to the women and men who were so thoughtful and open and frank in their responses to my questions. They were all twenty to forty years younger than me, and my first question was if they considered themselves feminists. Many in the thirty to forty year range did identify themselves as feminists and a number of them said that they were raised and influenced by feminists. Twenty year olds were much less familiar with the word, said they have never read about feminism or feminists in school. One young man didn’t know that men could be feminists.

My other question was whether the event would draw the same number and kind of people if it had been called FeministWalk and still used the same speakers and slogans. The response was quickly forthcoming- No it wouldn’t. So even if younger men and women consider themselves feminists, that particular word would not have the same draw and impact. Nevertheless, I felt a sense of pride that all the past waves of feminists have provided a sturdy trunk that has encouraged this tremendous, dazzling flowering.

It is worth noting that not only did women and the men who love and support them turn out at this event, a significant number of members of the lesbian, gay, bi-sexual and transgendered community were also there. Their presence was the biggest surprise of the day and in retrospect, that presence makes sense. Women get it that they are victims of violence and hate crimes simply because of their innate sexuality as women. How many individuals who comprise the LGBT community have also been victims of violence and hate crimes by virtue of their innate sexuality? The alliance between feminists and the LGBT community results in the power of sluts. It is a necessary and natural alliance.

Slutwalk is about many things and one of those things is about taking back the word “slut,” embracing it in a way that diffuses the negative power associated with it. My own personal arc of feminism has provided me with the opportunities to re-define words like “crone” and “cunt.” On Saturday, I added “slut” to my feminist lexicon. On the one hand I applaud the resiliency and smarts of my gender; on the other hand I despair that it is 2011 and women are still being told that they provoke rape by the way they dress. Have we really changed the balance of power regarding our sexuality, our reproductive choices and our lives? No—I don’t think that we have come a long way, baby. But we are not going away either and if Slutwalk is the good indication I think it is, we will continue to exalt the power of “yes.”

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Holly Eskew June 13, 2011 at 10:52 am

when i woke up this morning, a rainbow filled the sky.


Bob Dryer June 13, 2011 at 1:21 pm

“one of those things is about taking back the word “slut,” embracing it in a way that diffuses the negative power associated with it.”

uh…. what? Are you going to embrace the word Asshole next and try to diffuse the negative power associated with that word?

Aren’t some words supposed to be negative?


annagrace June 13, 2011 at 1:41 pm

Asshole is not a gender specific term. Everybody’s got one and everyone could potentially be one. Slut, skank, whore, bitch, crone, cunt etc etc etc are negative terms used by those without a uterus and vagina to describe those who do. It doesn’t come as a great surprise that the most prevalent definitions of slut begin with “A person, especially a woman, considered to be sexually promiscuous.”


Radical Uterus June 13, 2011 at 2:15 pm

Asshole- that is a whole category unto itself. Gender neutral since everybody has one. It requires context to be truly effective as a slur word. For instance I could say to you,”ur an asshole.” And unless the whole comment was read, no one would know if you truly were an asshole. I must note that I don’t think you are an asshole. Although I assume you do have one and show it off occassionally. Good job Bob.


Patty Jones June 13, 2011 at 5:36 pm

I know many people (most of them men) that proudly wear Asshole on their sleeve!


Radical Uterus June 13, 2011 at 5:46 pm

I respect and encourage truth in advertising.


Bob Dryer June 13, 2011 at 2:38 pm

I do on occasion…

Thank you for the feedback, I think I understand your reasoning better.


Radical Uterus June 13, 2011 at 5:10 pm

UR a sweetheart. LOL


Johnny Sandiego June 13, 2011 at 7:00 pm

Totally agree that slutty dress/behavior is no excuse for sexual assault. All the blame lies with the perpetrator. Still, acknowledging this fact doesn’t make the word “slut” lose it’s meaning. Sluts are everywhere! Sluts have always been trashy and always will be. Just because certain people will chase sluts doesn’t validate their sluttiness. The value of a slut is no more than the worth of any hole that needs pounding. It’s pathetic. And it goes both ways; a male slut has warts and is likely treating outbreaks and oozing green stuff out of it. So “slut” is that line we as a society draw to distinguish acceptable sexual behavior with unacceptable behavior.


not a redneck in east county June 13, 2011 at 9:19 pm

^and here’s a hole that needs pounding^


Erin June 14, 2011 at 10:05 am

So bummed that I had to miss the Slut Walk!

Thanks for the report, Annagrace. You rock!



Tony June 19, 2011 at 11:32 am

Ditto, missed the walk but I’m glad to hear it was such a success. Thanks for the report Mrs. Daniels, I hadn’t thought about the walk in the terms of redefining “slut”.


Frank Gormlie June 14, 2011 at 11:37 am

Nicely done video. Who did it?


Holly Eskew June 16, 2011 at 10:36 am

A culture that blames victims for being raped – for what they were wearing, where they were, and who they were with – rather than blaming the rapist is a culture that tacitly condones rape.

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